Saturday, February 19, 2011

I met a nice girl from Switzerland, Martina, on my way to Ooty and we ended up traveling together for several days. Ooty was nice, freezing cold surprisingly at night, but a good place to be for 2 days. I did a day trek through the hillside, which ended in one of the tribal villages where there was a festival going on. All the women were dressed in their best, beautiful bright saris and they sat around the temple area while the men had a serious jam session and did some traditional dances around the small, colorful temple. It ended with a goat being sacrificed, which I didn't stick around to watch, but one of the families took me into their home and looked after me...they were really sweet. I felt really privileged to witness the festival and the ceremonies, most of which I wasn't allowed to photograph.

Traveling around India is cheap, dirt cheap, but often complicated, late, non-sensical and chaotic - all part of the experience I suppose. In order to get to the coast from Ooty which is about 100 km inland (I think) I had to take a miniature UNESCO train to Mettapulayam- amazing landscape and definitely one of the best things I've done in India - then a crazy bus ride to Coimbatore, stay overnight, then take another train that was more than 5 hours late to Ernakulum, then a rickshaw from the train station, finally arriving in Kochi. I was only planning to stay in Kochi a few days, but I liked it so much I stayed a week. It's definitely a tourist town, but it's a nice little seaside place with decent restaurants, good coffee and lots of shopping.

On my way to Kanniyakumari I took a day tour through the backwaters of Kerala, which run for about 900km through the southwestern Indian state. It was peaceful sailing down the little canals seeing all the different kinds of birds and flowers, passing by little villages along the way.

It's such a hard life here, especially for the women. Everywhere you look you'll see women busting their butts in the fields in the middle of the blazing afternoon sun still in their full-on heavy saris while the men stand idly by wearing close to nothing relaxing & watching under the shade of a nearby tree. You'll see the women in rivers everywhere washing loads of clothes by hand or carrying literally 15 to 20 bricks on their head or tending to their child's every need, all still in their saris...it's pretty impressive.

Now I'm in Kanniyakumari, which is the southernmost tip of India. They say it's the only place on earth you can watch the sun rise and set over the ocean from the same spot - i'm not sure I believe it, but I like it here. Tomorrow I think I'll head to Varkala, another beach town - I think I'll stick to the coast for now. India is growing on me veeerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrryyyy slowly, but surely.











Sunday, February 6, 2011

India

I had a really great time in Sri Lanka. I completely fell in love with the people, the culture, the animals and the landscapes. I could definitely see myself living there. Maybe I could build two homes - one in the hillside and one on the beach...I could open up a couple businesses, drink tea, lay on the beach...live a dreamy life :)

But now, I am India. I landed in Bangalore on the 29th, stayed a few days, then headed to Mysore where I am now. I'm trying to stay positive about this country, but I have to say that its been pretty difficult to do. Aside from the noise, millions of cars, garbage everywhere, starving stray dogs, run down buildings, and pollution - the culture has been the most challenging to get used to, particularly the men. They clearly have no respect for women and they have no problem letting me know - they push their way in front of lines, completely ignore me when I speak, especially if I am with another man, and they stand as though they own the sidewalk, the street and everything else you might need to use. No gentlemen here - at least none I've met so far. I also ALWAYS feel like everyone is trying to scam me - whether it's for 3 rupees from the waiter, 300 rupees from the drivers, or 1000 rupees from shops, everyone seems to have a scam going and they're really good at making it seem as though they're being sincere. India lesson 1 - don't trust anyone!

OK, enough with the complaining. I got a couple beautiful saris and some silk scarves yesterday. I have been wanting a sari for forever, so I can't wait to wear it.

Tomorrow I'm taking a tour bus to Ooty where I'll stay for a few days before making my way further southwest to Kerala.

I've been having some serious trouble uploading pictures on to this blog, so take a look at my Facebook page to see my pictures.